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Hugging the Heavens II

One year ago, I was preparing to meet another photographer to talk about her second shooting a wedding with me. My wife woke up with a the same nagging cough and shoulder pain that had plagued her for a couple months and decided to stay home from work. Almost on a whim, she went with me to McKinney that day.. and on another last minute decision, we got in to see a new doctor, one who would sit down and listen to the complaints and come up with different suggestions and solutions.

By the end of that day, our lives would change.

A routine x-ray revealed a mass in my wife’s chest. The new doctor (we’ll call him Dr. Wonderful) immediately was thinking it was Lymphoma. More tests and a biopsy the following week would confirm that initial diagnosis. The week after that, she started the first chemotherapy treatment.

I kept much of this out of the blog for the very reason that it was so painful, emotionally and physically. Even still, I’m not going to share details here. But now, one year later, she is cancer free and once again, I find myself Hugging the Heavens.

She came home from a work trip to California yesterday, tired, but still full of life and energy. It was hard not to cry seeing her so vital again. We credit Dr. Wonderful with saving her life, even more so than her oncologist (who we try not to refer to at all.. while competent, he was a major jerk.. we have another name for him that isn’t appropriate for this blog).

We’re happy and healthy again. Dr. Wonderful will continue to monitor both of our states of health and I couldn’t be happier with that.

To anyone touched by cancer, Love to you. Keep up Hope. Those are your best weapons.

Me, this is the last time I plan to talk about cancer on this blog.

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Favorite Image of 2009

Update: I’ve entered this image in a contest.. if you’d like to cast your vote for it, go to this link: http://facesphotocontest.com/bin/Rate?image_id=1009400362

My favorite image from 2009 gains that distinction not just because it is a compelling photograph with a strong sense of story and emotion.. its also deeply personal to me. My dear friend Lar was diagnosed with breast cancer in October of 2008. She had me do her photo several times during the course of treatment, but none were as emotional as making this image in May in the middle of her chemotherapy. Lar is an amazingly beautiful woman with piercing blue eyes and its those same eyes that are so penetrating here, full of strength and sadness and pain all at once.

She was a Godsend to my wife this year, who was diagnosed with cancer – lymphoma – herself in March. She was able to help with advice and commiseration. They are both cancer free now and ready to put this nightmare year behind them.. another reason to post this image today.

Photography info: This is shot with a dark room for a background and in a room with two skylights above and south facing windows. An off camera fill flash to camera right was used to fill in shadows and get a small catchlight. Shot with a 70-200 2.8L wide open.

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